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Weekly Events at Gaia House:

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SUNDAY:

10:00 AM Quaker Meeting

6:00 PM Sunday Simple Meal (Progressive Christian Discussion)

2:00 PM Ekankar, Third Sunday

MONDAY:

7:30 PM SIWADE, African Drumming

TUESDAY:

7:00 PM Shawnee Dharma Meditation

WEDNESDAY:

7:30 AM Sunyata Buddhist Center Meditation

5:30 PM Gaia House Student Group Meeting

5:45 PM T'ai Chi

6:00-8:00 PM SIUC International Socialists

7:00 PM Shamanic Drum Circle, Second Wednesday

6:30 PM Peace Coalition, Third Wednesday

7:00 PM CCAN, Fourth Wednesday

THURSDAY:

10:00 AM Collage For The Soul, First Thursday

12:00 PM Book Discussion Signs and Wonders and If Grace Is True: Why God Will Save Every Person by Philip Gulley & James Mulholland

4:30 PM Non-Violent Communication Session

6:00 PM InterVeg, Vegetarian Potluck Dinner

7:30 PM InterVeg Forum

FRIDAY:

6:00-9:00 PM Rice and Spice, International Slow Food Dinner

SATURDAY:

4:00 PM Yoga

Weekly Events in Carbondale

International Coffee Hour, Fridays 3-5 PM at the NW Annex Building B. Mix with SIU students from all over the world. Sponsored by the International Friends Club.

Vigil For Peace, Saturdays, Noon to 1 PM, corner of Main and Illinois, Carbondale. Sponsored by the Peace Coalition of Southern Illinois



Non-Violent Communication 5 Point Overview

1. RESULT from NVC 
	practice:
	
	1. Increasing Peace of
	Mind & Self Acceptance
	
	2. The fallout from 
	such a revolution in 
	the world
	
2. CHOICES with every 
	interaction:
	
	1. Compelled to react 
	from our programming
	(how we have been
	trained, taught, and 
	told.)
	
	2. Impelled to act by
	our needs (the Life
	Energy within us)
	
3. MODALITIES of 
	communicating
	
	1. Self-Empathy - 
	Attention to what is
	going on within me
	
	2. Self-Expression -
	Communicating what is
	going on within me
	
	3. Empathy - Attention
	to what is going on in
	others
	
4. COMPONENTS

	1. Observation (not
	evaluation or 
	judgement)
	
	2. Feelings (indicate
	the needs calling out
	for attention)
	
	3. Needs (the Life
	Energy within)
	
	4. Requests (not 
	demands) present time,
	specific, doable
	
5. PRINCIPLES/ASSUMPTIONS

	1. All humans have the
	same needs within them
	and we are all doing 
	the best we can in 
	each moment to try to
	meet our needs.
	
	2. Each person is
	feeling their own
	feelings and trying to
	meet their own needs.
	Our feelings signal 
	whether our needs are
	being attended to or
	not. Other people may
	be the stimulus, but
	are never the cause of
	our feelings.
	
	3. Conflict Occurs in
	the ways we try to
	meet our needs. 
	Conflict never occurs
	at the level of needs.
	
	4. Force is only used
	for protection in the
	case of health or 
	safety, when no other
	option can be found in
	the moment.
	
	5. Guilt, anger, 
	depression, and shame
	are caused by the
	stories we tell
	ourselves.



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Gaia House-Interfaith Center Newsletter for Jan 26, 2010


In this Issue:
  • Important Panel and Forum This Week!
  • Non-Violent Communication 5 Point Overview
  • Lots of upcoming community events
  • Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Remembrance 2010
  • How to Donate to Haiti relief!



  • This Week at Gaia House


    AVATAR PANEL DISCUSSION
    WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 27 @ 7:30 PM

    Four local scholars will address the basic themes of the movie Avatar this Wednesday evening at Gaia House-Interfaith Center. Panel members are Media Psychologist Stuart Fischoff, SUC Radio and Television faculty member Sarah Lewison, retired SIUC History and Religious Studies faculty member Dale Bengtson, and author in Fear/Fearlessness Studies R. Michael Fisher. The panelists will critically comment on the import of Avatar's traditional themes and contemporary points of reference. Time for comments and questions from the audience will be available.

    Check out the event and invite your friends via Facebook!



    INTERNATIONAL STUDENT FORUM
    "IS A GLOBAL CLASH OF CULTURES INEVITABLE?"
    FRIDAY, JANUARY 29 @ 5:00 PM

    Hear students from around the world voice their thoughts in a roundtable discussion. All are Welcome! Refreshments and snacks will be provided. Participants are invited to Rice & Spice, our international slow food dinner following the forum.

    For more information, contact Christine or Sajit



    INTERVEG FORUM
    THURSDAY, JANUARY 28 @ 7:30 PM

    SIUC's Visiting Scholar Joanna Day from the Center for Archeological Investigations discusses her passion: the history of the spice Saffron and how and why its uses have changed throughout the years.



    RICE & SPICE
    FRIDAY, JANUARY 29 @ 6:00 PM

    Southern Indian with Sumant! Sponsored by Jewel of India and IEEE



    BOARD MEETING
    TONIGHT, TUESDAY JANUARY 29 @ 5:30 PM





    Community Events


    PARLIMENT OF WORLD RELIGIONS
    SLIDE SHOW & DINNER
    THURSDAY, JANUARY 28 @ 6:00 PM
    FIRST CHRISTIAN CHURCH

    This will take the place of the regularly scheduled Interfaith Council meeting in January.



    JEFF & VIDA
    FRIDAY, JANUARY 29 @ 7:30 PM
    COUSIN ANDY'S

    Making their Cousin Andy's debut, they bill themselves as "original bluegrass and rockabilly"--they have a real down-home sound that you won't want to miss! "Jeff & Vida make music that is real and true. Theirs are the songs you long to hear late at night on the interstate, in poolhalls and smoky whiskey bars." ~ New York Times Magazine



    DR. MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. REMEMBRANCE 2010

    SIUC and Carbondale are still celebrating the life and work of Dr. King through the end of the week, with activities like those below. Feel free to download the complete program of events in PDF format.

    Tuesday, Jan 26
    Community Service Project
    Eurma C. Hayes Center, 441 E. Willow
    2:00 PM

    Join the members of the MLK committee and registered student organizations as we kick-off community service at the Eurma C. Hayes Center. We plan to help refurbish the center and give it some life. Come out and help clean the resource rooms, and participate in the "I Can Read," tutoring programs. For additional information contact Devin Moran.

    Thursday, Jan 28
    Film & Discussion: "Birth of a Nation"
    SIUC Student Center, Video Lounge
    6:00 PM

    The Birth of a Nation (also known as The Clansman) is one of the most influential and controversial films in the history of American cinema. Set during the American Civil War and directed by D.W. Griffith, the film was released on February 8, 1915. It is important in film history for its innovative technical achievements and also for its controversial promotion of white supremacy and glorification of the Ku Klux Klan. Discussion is to follow with Professor Novotny Lawrence, Department of Radio & Television. For additional information contact Student Development 618-453-5714.



    "A DECADE OF CHOCOLATE"
    FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 5 @ 6:00 PM
    CARBONDALE CIVIC CENTER

    Help the Carbondale Women's Center "Party Like It's 1999" at their upcoming fundraiser. Tickets are $35. For information or to reserve, call (618) 303-5974.



    FUNDRAISER FOR LIFESAVERS
    SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 6 @ 6:00 PM
    MURPHYSBORO EVENT CENTER

    Hugh's wife Judy Ashby strongly recommended that this notice be put in the newsletter:

    You're all invited to an Interactive Mystery Dinner Theater Production entitled "Foul Play at the Big Game Rally." This is a fundraiser for LifeSavers and should be a fun and exciting evening of great food (dinner by C-Infinity with two entrees), both a silent and live auction, a 50/50 drawing, and door prizes. LifeSavers is a peer-support, suicide and crisis-prevention program for teens, which has established chapters in 29 southern Illinois high schools.

    Reservations are $35 per person and due by January 30 to Connie Shanahan, 403 S. Giant City Rd., Carbondale, 62902 or 457-4204.



    Our Global Community


    "WE THE CORPORATIONS"
    SIGN THE PETITION

    On January 21, 2010, with its ruling in Citizens United v. Federal Election Commission, the Supreme Court ruled that corporations are persons, entitled by the U.S. Constitution to buy elections and run our government. Human beings are people; corporations are legal fictions. The Supreme Court is misguided in principle, and wrong on the law. In a democracy, the people rule.

    We, the People of the United States of America, reject the U.S. Supreme Court's ruling in Citizens United, and move to amend our Constitution to:
        * Firmly establish that money is not speech, 
        and that human beings, not corporations, are 
        persons entitled to constitutional rights.
        * Guarantee the right to vote and to 
        participate, and to have our votes and 
        participation count.
        * Protect local communities, their economies, 
        and democracies against illegitimate 
        "preemption" actions by global, national, 
        and state governments. 
    




    CRISIS IN HAITI

    You have no doubt heard about the earthquake in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, and the nightmare that has ensued for its terrorized citizens and the aid workers who have poured in from around the world. Haiti is the poorest nation in the western hemisphere, and their Prime Minister has reported that over two-hundred thousand have died already.

    Fortunately, we can help. Click here for a great list of organizations like Unicef, CARE, Red Cross, and others, as well as direct links and instructions for donating so you can be sure your help reaches the helpless.

    OUR MISSION STATEMENT

    Gaia House-Interfaith Center is a welcoming community committed to a spiritual awareness that integrates peace, justice, and ecological sustainability.


    Gaia House-Interfaith Center's multipurpose areas, kitchen, and library are available for your meetings and social events. Wireless Internet. Visit our free lending library and our Labyrinth Peace Garden, 913 S. Illinois Ave. (corner of Grand), Carbondale, IL 62901. Website: www.ourgaiahouse.com. Gaia House is now present on FaceBook and Twitter for daily updates and reminders.

    We are supported by the Illinois South Conference of the United Church of Christ, the Synod of Lincoln Trails of the Presbyterian Church (USA), and locally by the Church of the Good Shepherd UCC, the Carbondale and Cobden First Presbyterian Churches, the Carbondale First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), the Carbondale Unitarian Fellowship, and many generous individuals and families. Thank you.

    Happenings in Faith, Peace, and Justice is available for your announcements. Please let your interested friends know about it. We will be happy to include them. Contact Jon-Paul Diefenbach, Office Manager, at 618-549-7387, or by email.

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